
With all the many preparations you need to make to get ready for a new baby, nine months might not seem nearly enough time. One of the major things you'll need to prepare is your home. Bringing baby home will be one of the most memorable experiences you'll have — one that you'll likely look back on for years to come. Preparing to bring a new baby home isn't quite as intensive as babyproofing (which will come later), but still is necessary to make the smooth transition from a family of two to three (or more!).
Clean House
Get your home clean from top to bottom. Your extreme nesting instincts may take care of this, and you may be compelled to rid your house of all dust bunnies, organize your linen closet and clean your mini blinds. You may even find it necessary to organize your Christmas decorations. However, in most cases, pregnant women by this time are just too tired for heavy cleaning. Enlist the help of a willing husband, family members, or hire a cleaning person to help you get your house ready for bringing baby home. You'll appreciate a clean house for the exhausting weeks ahead, and your baby will appreciate a fresh, sanitary home.
Stock Up
Get your pantry in order. Stock up on necessities, and cook a few freezer meals for those nights that you don't feel like cooking with a newborn. Collect takeout menus from your favorite restaurants. If he doesn't already now how to cook, instruct your husband on the finer points of mac and cheese and scrambled eggs so you can rest. While you're shopping for food, stock up on household necessities such as toilet paper, laundry detergent and shampoo, so you're not running out with a new baby.
Practice Makes Perfect
Test out your car seat (which you should've purchased weeks in advance) and stroller to be sure they fit in your car. Practice putting the seat in and taking it out. This mom learned the hard way that removing a baby seat — complete with newborn baby — from its base for the first time in freezing weather is a recipe for a screaming baby and panicked new parents.
Be Prepared
Arrange a friend or family member to take care of your house while you're in the hospital having your baby — especially if you have a pet or other children. If you live in an area prone to snow, planning ahead to have the driveway and front walk shoveled prior to bringing baby home can avert a slip and fall with a new baby in tow.
Check your schedule and cancel any ongoing obligations you may have, such as carpool, playdates, book club, etc.
Nursery
Set up your nursery, starting with the crib. If all you've prepared for bringing baby home is the crib and bedding, at least she will have a place to sleep. Many an expectant couple has brought a baby home a little earlier than expected to a beautifully decorated nursery with an unassembled crib still neatly packed in its box.
Wash all the baby's clothes in a gentle detergent a few weeks before your due date. If you've received enough clothes to outfit a wee little army, wash only a few onsies, socks, sleepers, etc. You may find that your baby outgrows her clothes before wearing all of her cute outfits, and unless she is a diva in training, pare down to a few essentials and let her wear her clothes more than once. For extras, keep the tags on them and exchange them if you can, save for the next baby, or keep for the purpose of regifting.
Have diapers and all the other baby accoutrements at the ready for bringing baby home. You can go as fancy as a special changing table complete with drawers or cubbies, or a simple changing pad for the floor with a tote stocked with diapers, diaper cream and wipes. Your new baby won't care either way — as long as he's clean, safe and dry.
Make your nest comfy. Set up your bedroom or family room to accommodate hours of nursing and rocking with a comfy place to sit, slippers, a warm blanket, reading materials and access to a phone and TV.
Make Room
Find a place for all that baby paraphernalia! Bringing baby home means bringing a lot of extra stuff into your home. Decide where you'll put the baby swing, portable play yard, changing table, nursing pillow, rocking chair, etc. You may have to move stuff around to make room — it may be time to finally move the unused treadmill from your bedroom to the basement. Babies take up a lot of space, so make bringing baby home less stressful by planning ahead.
While there are many other preparations you will make to bring home a new baby, starting with a few basics can take the stress out of trying to make everything perfect.
Parents worry endlessly about how to protect their children from stranger abduction and violence, but many overlook one of the biggest threats to their children's safety and well-being — their own home. Experts say that children between the ages of 1 and 4 are more likely to be killed by fire, burns, drowning, choking, poisoning, or falls than by a stranger's violence.
About 2.5 million children are injured or killed each year by dangers right in their own home, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC). That's why it's so important to carefully childproof your home.
Because childproofing and other safety measures can seem overwhelming, we've created three checklists that let you see at a glance what to do before your baby arrives, before your baby crawls, and before your baby starts toddling and climbing. You'll also find safety tips in our articles about childproofing your nursery, kitchen, and bathroom.
Here are some additional recommendations — along with some revealing statistics — about what you need to do to keep your baby safe at home.
You'll find all kinds of gadgets for sale that can really help your home childproofing efforts. Or, if you can afford it, you can hire a professional childproofer to choose and install safety devices for you. But keep in mind: Gadgets are no substitute for your eyes and ears.
"The best device is still supervision. I'd rather not recommend a product than suggest one that gives parents a false sense of security," says Anne Altman, a childproofing consultant and contractor in Santa Rosa, California.
The most effective way to ensure your baby's safety is to take a baby's-eye view of your home. Get down on your hands and knees and see how things look from down there.
What's within reach? What looks tempting? Where would you go if you could crawl, toddle, or walk? This will help you figure out which cupboards, drawers, and other spaces your child might get into. As he starts walking and climbing, you'll have to reevaluate again, looking higher each time.
Carefully lock up or stow away every potential poison or other hazard, including cleaning products, medicines, vitamins, and knives. Another option is to use gates to limit your child's access to areas of your home that might contain dangerous items.
Keep an eye out for any tiny objects that your baby could choke on. Pick up any coins, marbles, beads, paper clips, and other small objects you find on low tables or the floor or in low drawers or cupboards.
Be watchful when you have visitors, too. No matter how carefully you've childproofed the house, Great-Aunt Jane probably hasn't applied your standards to her purse. Aspirin, lipstick, and other items that people typically carry with them are dangerous to small children.
100 of your most pressing questions, all answered here
Beauty
• Is it safe to get a manicure while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to bleach my body hair during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get a salt scrub during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get or have a belly button ring when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to have LASIK eye surgery during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a heating pad for sore muscles during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a vibrating chair during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to bleach my teeth during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get Botox treatments during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to diet during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get a bikini wax when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to get a facial when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to get a mud bath during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get a perm while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to get a seaweed wrap when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to get a tattoo during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to sit in a hot tub while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to have acrylic nails put on during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to have my teeth cleaned during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take hot baths while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to treat my toenail fungus when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to use chemical hair removers like Nair during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to wear high heels when I'm pregnant?
Fitness
• Is it safe to be on my feet all day while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to bowl while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to carry around my toddler when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to do sit-ups or abdominal crunches during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get my heart rate over 140 beats per minute during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to sit in a hot tub while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to go mountain biking during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to go skiing during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to go to a rock concert when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to ice skate or roller blade during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to jog during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to move furniture while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to play tennis during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to ride horseback during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to ride the bumper cars at an amusement park when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to swim in a chlorinated pool during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to vacation at high altitude during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a heating pad for sore muscles during pregnancy?
Food & Drink
• Is it safe to diet during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to drink caffeinated sodas when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to drink diet soda during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to drink herbal tea during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to drink milk from cows that were given BST while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to drink tap water when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to drink unpasteurized juices during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat a lot of chocolate during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat a vegan diet during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat blackened foods during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat cured or smoked foods while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to eat deli meats when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to eat meat from livestock who are given antibiotics during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat non-organic produce while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to eat raw oysters during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat really spicy foods during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat sushi while pregnant?
• Is it safe to have my morning cup of coffee during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take a lot of antacids during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take vitamin C during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use my microwave oven during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to drink diet shakes during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to eat fish and other seafood when I'm pregnant?
Home & Work
• Is it safe to be around computers all day when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to be around people who smoke when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to be living in a house with lead paint when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to be on my feet all day while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to breathe in wood smoke from a fire during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to carry around my toddler when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to change the cat's litter box when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to continue breastfeeding when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to sit in a hot tub while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to have termites exterminated while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to move furniture while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to sleep with an electric blanket during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take hot baths while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to use a photocopier for more than a few minutes when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to use ant or roach spray during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use fertilizer in my yard when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to use my microwave oven during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to wear high heels when I'm pregnant?
Medical
• Can my depression harm the baby while I'm pregnant?
• Is homeopathy safe during pregnancy?
• Can running a fever while I'm pregnant harm my baby?
• Is it safe to be around a child with the chicken pox when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to be around people who smoke when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to continue breastfeeding when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to get Botox treatments during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to give blood during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to have LASIK eye surgery during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to have my child vaccinated while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to receive acupuncture during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take a lot of antacids during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take allergy medications during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take echinacea during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take ibuprofen during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take medication to combat motion sickness during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take medications that contain alcohol, like Nyquil, during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take migraine medication during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take my thyroid medication while I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to take sleeping pills during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take vitamin C during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to treat my toenail fungus when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to use a heating pad for sore muscles during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a nasal spray decongestant during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a vibrating chair during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use anti-diarrhea drugs during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use acetaminophen (Tylenol) during pregnancy?
Sex
• Is it safe to have anal sex when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to have sex in the third trimester?
• Is it safe to receive oral sex during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to swallow semen during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a dildo during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a vibrator during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to use a water-based lubricant during sex when I'm pregnant?
Sleep
• Is it safe to sleep on my back during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to sleep on my stomach during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to sleep with an electric blanket during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to take sleeping pills during pregnancy?
Travel
• Is it safe to be around people who smoke when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to breathe in wood smoke from a fire during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to drink unpasteurized juices during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to get a mud bath during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to go skiing during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to go to a rock concert when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to ride horseback during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to ride the bumper cars at an amusement park when I'm pregnant?
• Is it safe to take medication to combat motion sickness during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to travel to developing countries during pregnancy?
• Is it safe to vacation at high altitude during pregnancy?